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6 Tips for Your First Meeting With a Divorce Attorney

Friday, August 10, 2018

Meeting with a divorce attorney for the first time? You are taking a major step, and it is important to be properly prepared. Here are five tips for meeting with your divorce lawyer for the first time.

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Know What to Bring 

Ask the lawyer which documents you need to bring along. You might need to bring various tax documents and other legal documents. Make sure you bring all of them so that the lawyer can be properly prepared going forward.

Prepare a List of Questions

Write down any questions that you may have so that you are prepared for the meeting. If a question pops into your head, write it down. This way, you won't leave anything out by mistake.

Be Honest

The lawyer is going to ask you various questions about your marriage, your history together, and so on. Be honest. There is nothing to be ashamed of; divorce lawyers are prepared for every scenario. Not leaving anything out means that your lawyer will be able to handle your case properly.

Coordinate With Your Spouse

If you are going to the meeting together with your spouse, make sure that you are working together. You may not be on the best of terms, but coordinating and working together will ensure that the entire divorce process goes as smoothly as possible without any hiccups. Of course, don't bring your kids to the meeting; it's totally unnecessary. 

Take Notes

Take notes during your meeting. You are going to be covering a lot of topics, and some of them may be new to you. 

Give Yourself Enough Time

Get to the meeting early so that you have enough time. You want to make sure that you can cover all aspects of the divorce process and not leave anything out.

Contact us today for more information. 

5 Tips for Making the Divorce Process Smoother

Friday, August 03, 2018

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Going through a divorce is a harrowing process. There will always be tough times to get through. Here are a few tips for making the process easier.

Rediscover Yourself

After living with someone for so long, your identity becomes intertwined with that individual. When you break up with that person, you feel like you are losing your identity. That is why breakups and divorces can be so depressing. After a divorce, start rediscovering the person who you always were before you got married. Discover your passions, take up some new hobbies, and start enjoying yourself while you are alone.

Have a Support System

It is important to have a support system for when going through a breakup. You need all the emotional support you can get. Have a close family member or friend who you can talk to and who will not judge you. If necessary, go to a therapist who is trained in divorces and who can help you feel better.

Don't Get Bitter

It's easy to get extremely bitter after a divorce. Many people feel extreme emotions of hurt, anger, bitterness, and the desire for revenge. However, try to avoid getting into bitter arguments with your ex. Keep things civil, don't be vengeful, and avoid escalating things unnecessarily.

Focus On the Kids

Always focus on what is best for the kids instead of how you can get revenge on your ex. Have the kids' best interests in mind. Try to maintain as much of a connection with them as you can.

Get Legal Help

You also need to get a good divorce lawyer who can help you navigate the process. Divorces are extremely complex from a legal point of view, and you need someone who will be able to help you out in your specific situation. Having a good attorney means that the entire process will be so much smoother. Contact us today for help.

How an Attorney Can Help You Receive the Best Spousal Support Payment Possible

Sunday, April 29, 2018

Going through a divorce can be a very challenging situation.  For those that are going through a divorce and have been dependent on the income of their spouse, receiving a fair spousal support settlement is extremely important.  For those that are going through a divorce, hiring an attorney to ensure they receive proper representation is very important.  A divorce attorney can provide a range of services.  

Consultation

When you hire a divorce attorney to represent you, the first thing that they will be able to provide you with is a consultation on your situation.  The attorney will be able to review all aspects of your divorce and personal financial situation.  This will include reviewing sources of income for both parties, current assets, and expenses.  The attorney will then be able to explain what you are entitled to and what the forthcoming legal process will look like.

Negotiations

Since a divorce is a very challenging situation, avoiding going to trial is always a very good option. In most cases, the attorney will be able to handle all of the alimony and other spousal support discussions outside of the courtroom.  Your attorney will not only focus on ensuring you receive a fair spousal support payment for a period of time, but also receive long-term coverage including a share of retirement benefits. 

Litigation

If necessary, the attorney will also be able to provide assistance in the courtroom.  This can include building the case, presenting it in front of the judge and jury, and handling any deliberations.  This will ensure that you are prepared for the case and receive the best judgment possible. 

If you are going through a divorce, you should contact us to learn more about the services that we can provide to you.  Beyond making sure that you receive the right alimony settlement, we can also assist with the division of assets, child custody, and other challenges that come with divorce.