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Is There a Benefit to Choosing Separation Over Divorce?

Friday, November 20, 2020

When marital relations break down, often separation is a precursor to divorce. For some couples, during the time apart they decide that life without their spouse would indeed be better and choose to pursue a legal divorce. Other couples learn that they may be able to work things out. However, is there a benefit to choosing a longer term separation rather than just divorcing?

While it seems quite silly to choose separation over the permanency of divorce, it does have some benefits for couples.

Health Insurance

Not all divorces are vicious battles between two people. Sometimes you still care for your spouse despite not being good in a marriage together. For many, they choose separation because they require the health insurance from their spouse. Many remain separated simply to keep the health insurance but live rather separate lives.

Benefits

If a couple is together for more than 10 years, they can be entitled to a portion of Social Security or military benefits. Some couples may live separately through separation in order for the spouse to collect these benefits.

Money

Divorce is expensive. You may no longer wish to be married, but that doesn't mean you have the extra money to pay the legal and court fees for a divorce. As such, some couples live completely separate for years because neither has the money to divorce.

Religion

Some take the vows of marriage very strictly. Sometimes, their moral or religious beliefs do not believe in a divorce. That doesn't mean they need to live together. Indeed, some choose separation instead of breaking these beliefs.

Conclusion

Are you considering divorce? Do you have any other family law issue that needs the help of a skilled lawyer? We can help. Contact us today to see what the Law Office of Jamra & Jamra can do to help you solve all your family law issues with as little problems as possible.

Making Sense of Custody Arrangements in the Era of COVID-19

Friday, November 13, 2020


Custody during the COVID-19 pandemic has not been simple. Parents accustom to a steady schedule of sharing the children have found themselves legally isolated either away from or enclosed with their kids. Whether you are the parent quarantined with the kids or missing your children for an unfair duration, we're here to help.

Quarantine and Custody Length

The fact that entire regions have been set under quarantine and ordered not to mix households has put a lot of pressure on divorced co-parents. We know that many parents are facing an extended time with their kids, past the normal exchange points.                                                                                                                  

Can You Trade the Kids Safely?

Yes, but only if you isolate for 14 days first. Both parents and the kids need to have 0 contact with others for 14 days - without symptoms - to be sure that it's safe to mix immunity bubbles. If you achieve a 14 day isolation, you can carefully exchange child custody.

What If One Parent Is Sick?

The good news is that children are very rarely harmed by this illness. However, they can carry the illness between parents, who are at greater risk. If one parent gets sick, move children to the other parent as soon as possible using the 14 day isolation rule.

Adapting Child Support to New Circumstances

Child support is calculated based on time supporting the kids each month. If COVID-19 has changed your schedule, you may need to adapt the child support terms. This can be done through online legal services to find the best possible solution for your current and near-future conditions.

Divorce Legal Services for New or Temporary Child Custody Terms

A divorce attorney experienced in child custody issues is the best person to help you with the current complex child safety situation. With a legal service, you can find the most mutually-productive and child-supporting solutions. Adapt your schedule, meet online, and make sure whoever is buying the kid's groceries receives the support they need. Jamra & Jamra is here to provide our expertise in guiding co-parents through this extended crisis.

Conclusion

Contact us to consult on your COVID-era child custody concerns.

What to Expect From a Child Custody Hearing?

Friday, October 23, 2020

Ideally, a child custody hearing is something you never have to go through. However, because of that, it is a bit of an unknown that is likely causing you stress. What will happen? How will everything be sorted? For your specific circumstances, your lawyer can (and should) give you a full rundown on what will happen inside that courtroom, but here is what you can expect.

Child Custody Hearing in Court

In truth, most child custody hearings, when they make it to the courtroom, are almost all finished up. Due to how pressed the courts are for time, you do much of the planning, debating, and agreement outside of the courtroom with your lawyer, your ex-spouse, and their lawyer.

What you can expect is to form a parenting plan with your ex-spouse. This will be a lot of mediation on what is fair time that the child gets to spend with each parent. It is best that you go into very specific details. The more details that are covered in a court-approved parenting plan, the happier everyone will be. Be sure to cover things like holidays, school vacations, emergencies, transportation, and vacations.

When you do enter the courtroom, usually you don't need to be ready to debate your side. If there is any disagreement on issues that you and your spouse cannot agree on, the judge will weigh in to make a more final decision. This decision will be based on not so much what is fair to the parents, but rather what is in the best interests of the child. Other than that, the purpose of going to court is so the judge can look over the parenting plan and give it legally-binding approval.

Learn More About What to Expect From a Child Custody Hearing

Are you going through a divorce and need help navigating this difficult process? Contact us today to see what the Law Office of Jamra & Jamra can do for you.

Three Questions You May Have About Spousal Support

Friday, October 16, 2020

If you and your spouse are currently planning to get divorced, you might have questions about spousal support, sometimes referred to as alimony. Here's a look at three questions you may have.

What Are the Different Types of Spousal Support?

Spousal support is generally divided into two types, temporary spousal support and permanent spousal support. Temporary spousal support is being paid while the divorce is going on. Once the divorce is final, permanent, or long-term spousal support may be awarded to one of the partners.

Is Permanent Spousal Support Always Permanent?

"Permanent" could be misleading. While it is sometimes permanent, changes in circumstances may also mean changes in the amount of money that is received through spousal support. If either party has a change in employment, the amount of money could go up or down. If the person receiving the money remarries, spousal support will end. If you are concerned about these factors or other factors concerned with spousal support, a spousal support lawyer can help.  

How Is Spousal Support Determined?

Several factors go into determining how much spousal support the person is given. One important factor is the length of the marriage. If you were only married for a short time, you might not get spousal support, or it may be smaller than it would be if you'd been married longer. Age, health, and how well each partner can continue to support themselves based on their current standard of living are also considered. If one spouse helped with the other's education or other work-related training, that may also go into determining the amount of spousal support awarded.

Have More Questions About Spousal Support?

You may have other questions about spousal support, and we are here to help you. Contact us if you need a lawyer experienced in spousal support cases or if you have any questions about spousal support.

Who Pays for a Child's Health Insurance?

Thursday, September 17, 2020

The Affordable Care Act states that all children under the age of 18 must be covered by health insurance. However, that is not always as simple as it sounds, especially for divorcing parents. In many cases, the child will also be covered by the health insurance that a parent may get through their work. Even if the parents are divorced, the children will still be covered by the health insurance of choice or if the non-custody holding parent only has health insurance. Unfortunately, if neither parent has health insurance through their work, the coverage becomes a little more complex.

A Judge Decides

If neither parent can cover health insurance for a child post-divorce from their job, they will have to buy health insurance for their child. Unfortunately, this can be costly – as much as $1,000 per month. Who covers this cost? While mediation can negotiate splitting costs or help decide the paying party, if you take it to court, a judge will make the decision simple.

Healthcare for the child, under the eyes of the judge, is necessary for the support of the child. As such, it will typically be factored into child support payments. This means that the custody-holding parent will likely be responsible for finding health insurance for their child, but the support-paying parent will be paying for it with their monthly support payments.

This is not an ideal situation for the support-paying parent. Health insurance is expensive and the support payer may not be convinced that their huge support payment is really going to solid health insurance. However, if it is discovered that the custody-holding parent is not being aboveboard, they can be taken to court for it.

Learn More About Children's Health Insurance

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Can Child Support Agreements Be Made Outside of Court?

Friday, September 11, 2020

For many, the costs of divorce and separation are prohibitive. No one wants to go to court, and no one really wants to pays the court their fees for their service or for legal representation in the courtroom. However, much of divorce and child support negotiation can be done outside of the courtroom to keep things affordable.

In a Courtroom

There is no requirement that says child support and parenting plans need to be figured out in the courtroom in front of a judge. Often, you will want your lawyer to help suggest what is fair in terms of child support, but much of everything else can be figured out between the two parents outside of the courtroom.

Unfortunately, when it comes to child support agreements, you can't escape the need for a judge. Once a parenting plan and child support agreement has been figured out between two parents, it will need to be presented to a judge for their approval. When it comes to child support, the first priority of the judge is the well-being of your child. As such, they will make sure the agreement looks fair and it good interest to the child. They will then approve or reject it appropriately.

This is a necessary step, but while it may be an extra cost to you, it is to your benefit. Having a judge approve your support agreement will make it legally binding. If your ex-spouse violates it, then you can take legal action against them. This is why you want to make sure as many bases as possible are covered in the agreement.

Learn More About Making Child Support Agreements Outside of Court

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A Breach of Fiduciary Duty in California Spousal Support Requirements

Friday, September 04, 2020

Divorces happen and the process is rarely comfortable or easy, especially when alimony is concerned. Alimony was created to lessen the negative effects of a dramatic transition on a person who doesn't have the immediate means to fulfill their needs after a divorce. Unfortunately, much like any other program created to assist people, it can be abused.

What do you do if you suspect that your former partner has somehow dishonored a spousal support agreement? What course of action can you take?

Breach of Fiduciary Duty

Each spouse has a responsibility to the other when it comes to any and all finances and debts acquired during the relationship. It doesn't matter if the assets and debts were acquired together or alone. California takes fiduciary responsibility very seriously and all assets must be disclosed during the process of a divorce or the person hiding relevant information can be punished. 

breach of fiduciary duty refers to the act of hiding assets and manipulating income levels that are reported to the court system in the case of divorce. It is illegal to withhold any information and is considered a breach of contract and a breach of trust. 

What Do You Do?

If you suspect that your former partner may be hiding assets or somehow manipulating financial information, address any and all concerns to your divorce attorneys and allow them to investigate your claims. It is a lawyer's job to investigate all contentious issues in a divorce. If they can find a breach, you may be entitled to what your former partner is hiding. 

If you are accused of breaching a fiduciary trust, you need to contact your divorce lawyer immediately to clear up any misconceptions. Your attorney's job is to protect you and your interests and direct honesty goes a long way.

What you DO NOT DO is conduct outside investigations on your own. Evidence obtained illegally or nefariously can damage any arguments that you have and make you look bad in the eyes of the court. 

No matter what, it is essential to begin the process of your separation with a trusted and qualified attorney with a proven success record to back you up in every situation.  

Call Us With Your Questions

The experienced and supportive attorneys at Jamra & Jamra are here to ensure you get the fairest deal possible when it comes to your family. Contact us at 310-278-9001 to schedule your free consultation, and we can get started on your case.

More Tips for Same Sex Marriages Ending in Divorce

Monday, August 17, 2020

When it became legal to marry someone of the same sex, many rushed to the alter because they finally could. However, others decided that they were fine the way that things were.  They decided not to change anything about their lives. 

However, once married, same-sex couples can also get divorced. It can be messy and complicated. Here are some more things to consider when getting a divorce.

Think About Your Children

If you have adopted children during your marriage, you have to consider their needs. You are going to have to come up with a good custody arrangement that works for everyone. If needed, you should pay child support so that your children can continue the life that they have been living.

Find a Way to Co-Parent Together

If you have children together, you are going to be in each other's lives for the rest of your lives. The sooner that you can get along, the better off you will be. It will also be much easier on your children if you are able to spend holidays and special occasions together.

Get the Help That You Need

If you are really struggling, you may want to talk to a therapist. He or she will help you find ways to cope with your divorce and all of the feelings that you are having. It can really make a difference in healing after a divorce.

Don't Give Up

Just because you are getting divorced doesn't mean that you are a failure. You are going to find someone again that makes you happy and ready to settle down again. You may even decide to marry again. In fact, many people are much happier in their second divorce because they really know what they want and need from their partner.

Find More More Tips for Same Sex Marriages Ending in Divorce 

If you have children, you need to consider them during your divorce. They need both of you in their lives so it is important to learn to work together so that they still have a good life. Then, if you are struggling, you need to get some help. There is nothing wrong with talking to someone as you adjust to this new time in your life. 

Contact us for all of your legal needs. We will be glad to help you get through this difficult time. 

Tips for Same Sex Marriages Ending in Divorce

Monday, August 10, 2020

Now that it is legal, same-sex couples can get married. While many same-sex couples rushed to get married because they finally could, others didn't feel the need to change the way that they have been living for several years. Many already felt married by that point, so they didn't. They have continued to live the way that they always have.

However, once married, same-sex couples can also get divorced. It can be messy and complicated. Here are some things to consider when getting a divorce.

Time Is Going to Be a Factor

The length of time that a couple is married can really affect a divorce. Unfortunately, many same-sex couples lived together for many years before being allowed to be legally married. Some judges will count the year that you were legally married, though some will count the time that you lived together to determine the rest of the divorce proceedings.

Dividing Property

When dividing up property and assets, the state starts at the property that you owned together since 2013. Even if you lived together for ten years at that point, they will only count the property and assets that you got from that point on.

Hire a Lawyer

Don't forget to hire a lawyer.You should never go through a divorce alone. You need an experienced lawyer on your side to make sure that you are protected and can find a divorce settlement that works for you.

Meditation

Consider using mediation. Since the courts have their own way of dealing with your property and assets, many same-sex couples go through mediation. It allows you to end the marriage on better terms and divide up your assets the way that you want to.

Conclusion

Getting divorced is never easy. If you are in a same-sex marriage, it can be even harder. Legally, you could have acted married for years before you ever did get married. This can really change your divorce proceedings. For this reason, many same-sex couples try to go through mediation and settle everything outside of the court system. If you can work together to come up with a settlement, it is going to be much better for everyone.

Contact us for all of your legal needs. We will be glad to help you get through this difficult time. 

When It’s Time to Modify a Child Support Order

Tuesday, July 14, 2020

Going through a divorce after establishing a family is stressful and upsetting. Sometimes the turmoil doesn't end when your divorce finalizes. Perhaps you and your ex-spouse settled on a child support agreement—perhaps the court ruled on an appropriate order. Either way, changes may occur that give cause for a change in your child support order.

Changes That Effect a Child Support Order

Have you or your ex-spouse experienced one of the following changes?

  • The income of one or both parents has changed
  • A parent has a child from another relationship
  • There have been significant changes in time the child spends with each parent
  • A parent becomes incarcerated
  • The child's needs change in cost, including but not limited to health care, child care, or education
  • There have been changes in any of the factors used to calculate child support.

For parents who have already been through the trials of a divorce, going back before a judge to argue with your ex can be dismaying. You've already gone through the proceedings once before. Still, the financial needs of you and your children are very important. As a parent, you want the best for your child, and if some occurrence puts a strain on your wallet, it is in your best interest to obtain a fair resolution. Whether that is with the cooperation of the other parent or without, having the correct child support is essential to the stability of yours and your children's lives.

Proceedings

Child support proceedings can transpire through multiple avenues. You may reach a new settlement with your spouse amiably, or you may have to take them to court. You may also involve your local child support agency (LSCA). The LSCA acts as a middleman between you and the court; the agency determines whether a modification to your child support order is needed based on both parents' financial records. If you and your former spouse are able to reach an agreement without the interference of an outside party, the LSCA may also file what is called a "stipulation" to the court of your agreement.

Learn More About a Child Support Order

No matter the route that is taken to reach new child support arrangements, it is always important to have a family attorney to ensure that all outcomes are in the best interest of you and your child. Please contact us with any questions you may have about your child support.