Family Law Blog

Divorce and Self-Employment

Friday, October 12, 2018

Divorce is full of problems. That is just part of the process when you are ending a long-term committed relationship where two parties have become so involved in each other's lives. However, divorce when one spouse is self-employed it is likely to add more problems to the pile. While self-employment doesn't affect the divorce itself, it does affect the financial aspects of divorce.

Self-Employment and Hiding Assets

When one spouse is self-employed, a major worry is that they can somehow hide assets from the other spouse. This actually should be a worry as income from self-employment can be surprisingly well hidden, but often not hidden enough.

When one spouse is self-employed, if you have an amicable relationship, then hiding assets may not be a worry. However, if there is a lot of tension in your divorce, as there often is, it may be in your best interest to seek out the help of a forensic accountant. Often self-employed individuals are no stranger to shuffling money around to support their business, making the act of hiding assets not immediately apparent to the untrained eye. However, the help of a forensic accountant can help you make sure they are being honest.

Self-Employment and Spousal Support

One of the primary issues of self-employed spouses is not so much hiding assets, but rather gathering a concrete amount of income for spousal support. Often in self-employed professions, their amount of income can fluctuate rapidly. Furthermore, what is to stop them from taking less work during a divorce so it makes their income look smaller?

In this circumstance, often courts will not look at recent income, but rather average income. It functions much in the same way of a spouse who quits their job to take a lesser paying job to slip spousal support. The courts will examine past income and their ability to earn in order to work out spousal support payments. However, if they have always been a secondary earner to your primary earnings, you may very well have to pay spousal support to them.

Divorce is never a simple situation, and self-employed spouses make things even trickier. If you are divorcing and need help, contact us today.


Reasons You Might Want to Date Before Your Divorce is Final

Thursday, October 04, 2018

Going through a divorce can be devastating. You may feel like you are losing everything, including yourself. It can be a lonely and upsetting time. Because of this, many people start to date even if their divorce is not final. It doesn't help that many well-meaning friends and family may recommend getting right back out there, even if you don't feel like it.

So, should you date before your divorce is final? Here are some reasons why you might want to.

There are no legal reasons why you can't date during the divorce process.

 Legally, you are allowed to date and move on while you are still going through the divorce so if you are ready, there is no reason why you shouldn't put yourself back out there.

You are obviously going through a divorce for a reason so it can be really nice to feel special. 

Dating someone new is always special and exciting. They will work hard to impress you. You will probably dress up and try to look your best. This can really help you feel better, knowing someone thinks you are great.

It can also help your self-esteem. 

Getting dressed up and going out can make a person feel a lot better. Too many people get depressed after a divorce where they just spend all of their time at home, alone, and in their pajamas. By getting cleaned up and polished, you will feel so much better.

While some people think that you need to get right back out there during a divorce, others believe that you need to wait. As long as you feel ready (and have put your marriage behind you), there is no legal reason why you shouldn't. It might actually help you feel a lot better because who doesn't feel better when they are dressed up and spending time with an attentive person?

Contact us for all of your legal needs.


When Child Support Deviates From the Formula

Friday, September 28, 2018

When it comes to child support, the award isn't just a random guess on how much financial support a parent receives. Instead, judges will use a specific formula to decide how much child support is awarded. This means that in many cases you can sit down with your lawyer and do a pretty close calculation on what sort of child support you will be entitled to or need to pay. However, there are some deviations to the formula that can affect it. These deviations include:

  • Special Needs - If your child has special needs, then the expenses of their care may be far greater than other children. This means that costs due to their disability will need to be factored in.
  • Extraordinary Expenses - Similar to special needs considerations, if your child has any medical, psychological, or educational needs, this may cause a deviation. For example, if your child is accepted to a gifted program, that may merit a deviation.
  • Sufficient Debt - This doesn't have anything to do with the child at all. If you parted with your spouse and share a sufficient amount of debt, this can affect child support payments. Obviously, if you have to care for a child and pay your share of joint debt, it can affect how the child is cared for.
  • Time Spent - As the ex-spouse paying child support, spending more time with the child may lower the payment necessary for child support. Obviously, if you are watching the child while the other parent is at work, this should and does lower your financial obligation.

If you are going through a divorce with children and would like to learn more about the whole process, contact us today to see what we can do for you. It is a difficult time, but the Law Office of Jamra & Jamra can help.

Can Spousal Support Be Extended?

Thursday, September 13, 2018

After a marriage is dissolved via divorce, often the separating parties agree on a payment between them at the end of the marriage. In spousal support, one spouse agrees to pay the other spouse a certain sum in order to support them during the transition to single life. In most cases, these payments are designed to support the spouse until they become independent, but what happens if spousal support runs out and you still cannot support yourself, can you get it extended?

Spousal support is divided into three categories - Rehabilitative, Permanent, and Lump-Sum. A lump-sum payment is paid all at once and thus no recurring payments are necessary. Rehabilitative payments are made so the ex-spouse can seek employment or finish college in order to become self-supporting. Finally, permanent spousal support payments are common after long marriages where the ex-spouse did not have the ability to develop skills in order to seek employment.

In both lump-sum and permanent spousal support, an extension won't be needed. However, when a spousal support agreement is agreed upon by the divorcing couple or put in place by the courts, they often come with modification clauses. These clauses can mean no modification - thus no extension - is possible or can only be modified if certain criteria are met. In most cases, modification clauses are used so that one party doesn't get taken advantage of. For example, if an ex-spouse is gainfully employed, the spousal support may be modified so that it can be stopped because they no longer need it. However, this modification can work the other way if one spouse has not found employment and needs an extension.

If you are divorcing and want to make sure spousal support will be in place to take care of you, contact us today. Let us help you get the best possible outcome from your divorce.

What to Do After Receiving Divorce Papers

Friday, September 07, 2018

In some cases, divorce is anticipated. You had been living separated for years, and you just knew it was coming. However, for some couples, they just wake up one day and find divorce papers sitting in front of them. However, what now? If you have received divorce papers, take these steps.

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Read Them

We live in a world where often we are pushed to just sign papers without reading them because the language is so complicated you can't understand it anyway. However, your divorce papers contain a treasure trove of information, as well as a deadline by which you must sign them. If the papers are a complete surprise to you, they may even contain the reasons for a divorce.

Contact a Lawyer

If divorce papers have been filed, this is not something that is going to be easily rectified. Contacting a divorce lawyer can help you understand the papers, and more importantly, respond to them appropriately by the usually very short deadline. While many believe a lawyer is just someone who can help you negotiate the most out of your divorce, they are first and foremost an advocate for your rights to make sure your spouse doesn't try to run you into the ground.

Protect Your Assets

This doesn't mean that you should go withdraw all your money from a joint checking account after receiving divorce papers, but rather you should take steps to protect your assets. You should leave all your assets where they are until they can be divided by the court, but you should also set up new separate bank accounts where your next paycheck will be deposited.

Are you going through a divorce? Whether it was long coming or a complete surprise, we can help you. As divorce lawyers, we can help you prepare for what is likely going to be a long process. Contact us today so we can start helping you today.


Moving Out During Divorce Doesn't Extinguish Homeownership Rights

Thursday, August 23, 2018

Man and woman arguing at home

Often one of the first steps of couples heading towards divorce is one party moving out of the shared home. Even if it is just separation, many find it easier to have a little space to think. So one party of a marriage may move in with relatives or find new housing altogether. However, it is important to remember that moving out of your home does not relinquish your homeownership rights.

Homeownership Rights

One of the most important considerations is that moving out of the home does not negate any lending agreements. If you agree beforehand that your spouse will take over payments, then that is one thing. However, if no agreement is made and you just stop paying because you think you are off the hook, then this can be a detriment to you if your name is on the mortgage. In fact, you will need to continue paying until the home is either sold or refinanced. Often this can help speed up a person's decision to divorce since it feels bad paying for a home you are not actually living in.

Furthermore, even if you move out of the home, if your name is still on the title of the home, you maintain the right to move back in if necessary. Often spouses heading for divorce are in a high emotion situation, so it is better to have space. However, if you cannot find a place to stay, your house is still very much your house until the divorce is finalized.

If you are getting a divorce, it is important to know your rights and responsibilities in the matter. You are still required to pay your mortgage, but you still have the right to live in your home. If you are heading for divorce and need help sorting out other rights and responsibilities as well as representation in the process, contact us today.

6 Tips for Your First Meeting With a Divorce Attorney

Friday, August 10, 2018

Meeting with a divorce attorney for the first time? You are taking a major step, and it is important to be properly prepared. Here are five tips for meeting with your divorce lawyer for the first time.

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Know What to Bring 

Ask the lawyer which documents you need to bring along. You might need to bring various tax documents and other legal documents. Make sure you bring all of them so that the lawyer can be properly prepared going forward.

Prepare a List of Questions

Write down any questions that you may have so that you are prepared for the meeting. If a question pops into your head, write it down. This way, you won't leave anything out by mistake.

Be Honest

The lawyer is going to ask you various questions about your marriage, your history together, and so on. Be honest. There is nothing to be ashamed of; divorce lawyers are prepared for every scenario. Not leaving anything out means that your lawyer will be able to handle your case properly.

Coordinate With Your Spouse

If you are going to the meeting together with your spouse, make sure that you are working together. You may not be on the best of terms, but coordinating and working together will ensure that the entire divorce process goes as smoothly as possible without any hiccups. Of course, don't bring your kids to the meeting; it's totally unnecessary. 

Take Notes

Take notes during your meeting. You are going to be covering a lot of topics, and some of them may be new to you. 

Give Yourself Enough Time

Get to the meeting early so that you have enough time. You want to make sure that you can cover all aspects of the divorce process and not leave anything out.

Contact us today for more information. 

5 Tips for Making the Divorce Process Smoother

Friday, August 03, 2018

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Going through a divorce is a harrowing process. There will always be tough times to get through. Here are a few tips for making the process easier.

Rediscover Yourself

After living with someone for so long, your identity becomes intertwined with that individual. When you break up with that person, you feel like you are losing your identity. That is why breakups and divorces can be so depressing. After a divorce, start rediscovering the person who you always were before you got married. Discover your passions, take up some new hobbies, and start enjoying yourself while you are alone.

Have a Support System

It is important to have a support system for when going through a breakup. You need all the emotional support you can get. Have a close family member or friend who you can talk to and who will not judge you. If necessary, go to a therapist who is trained in divorces and who can help you feel better.

Don't Get Bitter

It's easy to get extremely bitter after a divorce. Many people feel extreme emotions of hurt, anger, bitterness, and the desire for revenge. However, try to avoid getting into bitter arguments with your ex. Keep things civil, don't be vengeful, and avoid escalating things unnecessarily.

Focus On the Kids

Always focus on what is best for the kids instead of how you can get revenge on your ex. Have the kids' best interests in mind. Try to maintain as much of a connection with them as you can.

Get Legal Help

You also need to get a good divorce lawyer who can help you navigate the process. Divorces are extremely complex from a legal point of view, and you need someone who will be able to help you out in your specific situation. Having a good attorney means that the entire process will be so much smoother. Contact us today for help.

How Long Does Rehabilitative Alimony Last?

Friday, July 27, 2018

There are many different types of alimony that may be used depending on the specifics of a divorce. However, most commonly, if you are going through a divorce, you may find yourself paying or receiving what is referred to as rehabilitative alimony or spousal support. Unlike permanent alimony, you may find yourself paying or receiving this for only a set period of time.

Rehabilitative spousal support is meant to not be permanent, but to "rehabilitate" a spouse so they can become self-sufficient after a divorce. However, as to how long it can last will vary. Sometimes, the courts can decide that it should be paid only for a set amount of time so the spouse can get back on their feet. However, rehabilitative alimony can also be tied to a specific goal such as graduating college or gaining sufficient employment.

Yet, if rehabilitative alimony is tied to a specific goal, it leaves room for a spouse to abuse that. They could take a year off their education or only take one class. If there is not a sufficient reason for this, you may be able to argue that you should no longer pay spousal support. Often in these cases, an ex-spouse will get a job and not have time for education, or not want to pursue it at all anymore. Usually, the rules for rehabilitative alimony can then be altered or dismissed depending on how much an ex-spouse is making at their new job or changing the rehabilitative alimony from "goal-based" to a set time limit.

While no one really wants to pay spousal support, doing so on a rehabilitative basis can often be preferable purely because it is not forever and they only need to pay for a set amount of time. If you are going through a divorce and want to make sure you are not paying spousal support forever, then contact us today.

Reasons to Choose Annulment Over Divorce

Thursday, September 28, 2017


It happens every day. Couples come to the decision that they no longer want to be together. If they were dating, the split is heart-breaking but simple. However, if they are legally married, splitting up is just ever so much more difficult. When it comes to dissolving a marriage, there are two choices: divorce or annulment.

Contrary to the belief, annulments aren't just for quickie weddings in Las Vegas, they can be employed for a number of reasons. Unlike divorce, an annulment can only happen if there are specific situations about the marriage. In most states, these include reasons of fraud, bigamy, underage or incompetent spouse, or the marriage has not been consummated.

Typically the difference between an annulment and a divorce is that an annulment makes it as if the marriage never happened, but a divorce will always be on record. In days past when divorce had a negative stigma, seeking an annulment was the preferred course of action. However, today most people seek annulments in order to protect their property and possessions. If you can prove that a spouse was already married or lied about who they were, then a marriage can be annulled and even in an equal division of property states, they will have no claim on what is yours.

Annulments may be the preferable option for some, but if you do not fit the strict requirements, then you will have to settle for a regular old divorce. However, that doesn't mean you have to lose everything. With the right divorce lawyer, you can make sure your divorce goes smoothly and in your favor. If you are considering a separation, contact us today.