Family Law Blog

Are You the Right Person for Custody of Your Grandchildren?

Sunday, February 09, 2020

When your adult children are having a rough time, it is very hard not to step in. However, there are times when you need to, especially when it comes to your grandchildren. If you are seriously concerned about their wellbeing, you may want to talk to a lawyer about getting custody of your grandchildren.

That being said, you may not be the right person to get custody of them. Here are some things to think about before you take over your grandchildren's care.

Do You Have Help and Support?

You can't raise another child (or two) on your own. Is your spouse supportive? Do you have friends who can pitch in when you need to run errands and get things done?

Are You Relatively Healthy

Raising children is hard, no matter what your age. However, if you have some health problems that may continue to worsen, you might not be able to care of your grandchildren for the next ten to twenty years.

Do You Have the Drive to Raise Your Grandchildren?

Instead of enjoying your empty nest, you are going to have young children in your home. Are you ready for that? Do you even want to take care of them?

You are not obligated to care for your grandchildren so if you have any concerns, you may want to help find someone else. It is better to let someone who is able to care for them raise them than struggle with them yourself. They will know that they are a burden to you.

Conclusion

Though it may break your heart, you may not be the best person to raise your grandchildren. You need to make sure that you have help and support. You also need to be relatively healthy. If you have health concerns, it will be even harder to raise a child. You also need to want to raise them. If you don't, you need to find someone who really wants them.

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