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Co-Parenting Tips When You Don't Live Near Your Children

Monday, January 06, 2020

Co-parenting is hard when you live close to your ex-spouse. Add in some distance (a few hours), and it can become downright difficult.

It is a challenge whether you are the one who has your children or you feel like the one who was left behind. However, you have to find a new way to co-parent together. Here are some tips to help if you don't live near your children.

Stay in Touch Regularly

You should try to schedule phone calls and video chats regularly. You may want to do this weekly or even daily, depending on you and your children's schedules. Indeed, never miss this because you and your children need this time together.

Ask Questions

Make sure that you ask questions and really listen to the answers. Initiate conversation with your children by asking them about their day, school, and other events that are going on with their life. If they have something special going on, ask them to tell you all about it.

It is even helpful to learn all about the people in your children's lives. Find out the names of their neighbors, teachers, and friends at school. Ask about them on a regular basis, so that your children really feel like you are involved in their lives.

Get Together

Find ways to get together with your children. Though you may not be able to visit them every weekend, if you can occasionally travel to spend some time with them, it will mean a lot to them. If they are in a sport and they have a big competition, find a way to be there.

Conclusion

Though it is hard to be away from your children for long periods of time, you need to stay connected with them. Call and video chat with them regularly. Learn about their life and ask questions to find out more. Then, travel to them when you can. They will really appreciate seeing you there!

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