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Unique Issues With Same Sex Divorce

Monday, November 30, 2020

In terms of process, divorce is the same no matter whether you are a heterosexual couple or a same sex one. However, same sex couples do have two unique circumstances in divorce that they may face compared to heterosexual divorces. By knowing these potential issues, you can make sure you are prepared for them if they may be something you face in a same sex divorce.

Previous Domestic Partnership and Property Division

If you entered into a marriage when it became legal after years of domestic partnership, you may face some new difficulties when it comes to property division. While you did have a legal partnership prior to marriage, it may make property division work a little differently.

Property division and the establishment of shared property are strongly dependent on the date of the marriage. As such, it may be difficult for the courts to establish what is individual property and what is shared marital property if you were in a domestic partnership prior.

Typically, if you had a domestic partnership prior to marriage, you will want to work out as much property division outside of the courtroom as possible to avoid unanticipated splits.

Child Custody

The child custody between same sex couples can be particularly difficult. As a rule, the law will always side with the biological parent over those unrelated to the child. You can imagine the issues this causes with same sex child custody cases. However, if the non-biological parent is listed on the birth certificate or has formally adopted the child, they will have more standing. However, the biological parent will always have more.

Due to these unique issues, it is always more beneficial for same sex couple to work out child and property division outside of the courtroom. The courts tend to take awhile to catch up with new legal precedents sometimes, and unfortunately, this is one of those times. If you are a same sex couple going through divorce and need help, contact us today. Let the professionals at the Law Office of Jamra & Jamra come to your aid.

Is There a Benefit to Choosing Separation Over Divorce?

Friday, November 20, 2020

When marital relations break down, often separation is a precursor to divorce. For some couples, during the time apart they decide that life without their spouse would indeed be better and choose to pursue a legal divorce. Other couples learn that they may be able to work things out. However, is there a benefit to choosing a longer term separation rather than just divorcing?

While it seems quite silly to choose separation over the permanency of divorce, it does have some benefits for couples.

Health Insurance

Not all divorces are vicious battles between two people. Sometimes you still care for your spouse despite not being good in a marriage together. For many, they choose separation because they require the health insurance from their spouse. Many remain separated simply to keep the health insurance but live rather separate lives.

Benefits

If a couple is together for more than 10 years, they can be entitled to a portion of Social Security or military benefits. Some couples may live separately through separation in order for the spouse to collect these benefits.

Money

Divorce is expensive. You may no longer wish to be married, but that doesn't mean you have the extra money to pay the legal and court fees for a divorce. As such, some couples live completely separate for years because neither has the money to divorce.

Religion

Some take the vows of marriage very strictly. Sometimes, their moral or religious beliefs do not believe in a divorce. That doesn't mean they need to live together. Indeed, some choose separation instead of breaking these beliefs.

Conclusion

Are you considering divorce? Do you have any other family law issue that needs the help of a skilled lawyer? We can help. Contact us today to see what the Law Office of Jamra & Jamra can do to help you solve all your family law issues with as little problems as possible.

Making Sense of Custody Arrangements in the Era of COVID-19

Friday, November 13, 2020


Custody during the COVID-19 pandemic has not been simple. Parents accustom to a steady schedule of sharing the children have found themselves legally isolated either away from or enclosed with their kids. Whether you are the parent quarantined with the kids or missing your children for an unfair duration, we're here to help.

Quarantine and Custody Length

The fact that entire regions have been set under quarantine and ordered not to mix households has put a lot of pressure on divorced co-parents. We know that many parents are facing an extended time with their kids, past the normal exchange points.                                                                                                                  

Can You Trade the Kids Safely?

Yes, but only if you isolate for 14 days first. Both parents and the kids need to have 0 contact with others for 14 days - without symptoms - to be sure that it's safe to mix immunity bubbles. If you achieve a 14 day isolation, you can carefully exchange child custody.

What If One Parent Is Sick?

The good news is that children are very rarely harmed by this illness. However, they can carry the illness between parents, who are at greater risk. If one parent gets sick, move children to the other parent as soon as possible using the 14 day isolation rule.

Adapting Child Support to New Circumstances

Child support is calculated based on time supporting the kids each month. If COVID-19 has changed your schedule, you may need to adapt the child support terms. This can be done through online legal services to find the best possible solution for your current and near-future conditions.

Divorce Legal Services for New or Temporary Child Custody Terms

A divorce attorney experienced in child custody issues is the best person to help you with the current complex child safety situation. With a legal service, you can find the most mutually-productive and child-supporting solutions. Adapt your schedule, meet online, and make sure whoever is buying the kid's groceries receives the support they need. Jamra & Jamra is here to provide our expertise in guiding co-parents through this extended crisis.

Conclusion

Contact us to consult on your COVID-era child custody concerns.

Domestic Partnerships Are Legal and Must Be Dissolved in Court

Friday, November 06, 2020

Many people, of all genders and ages, are holding off on marriage and, instead, choosing a domestic partnership that establishes many of the essential rights that married people have without legally being considered a 'marriage'.

Men and women who have been damaged by divorce in some way or couples who want the same basic rights as a married couple without the entire commitment of a legal marriage can choose to establish a domestic partnership.

Sometimes this is the best course for a couple, but occasionally these relationships do not work out. We can't all be Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn. 

Why Were Domestic Partnerships Created?

A domestic partnership in California is currently defined as an established adult couple who are romantically involved and dedicated to each other while not being legally married. They choose to live together, share property, and even have children.

The couple registers as a domestic partnership for legal purposes, such as in inheritance or adoption issues, and the concept was originally adapted in California as an option that resembles a marriage for same-sex couples who were not allowed, until fairly recently, to be legally married. 

For example, Rick and Steve have been together, romantically, for thirty years before Rick finds out that he has terminal cancer. Before domestic partnerships, Steve had no legal right to make health or money decisions for the person he loves and has always cared for. Steve could not inherit the home he had shared with Rick for thirty years and many hospitals could ban him from his boyfriend's hospital room because he was not considered a legal family member.

Filing for a domestic partnership changed that and gave Steve and Rick the rights they deserve. But what happens if the domestic partnership we are in does not work out and we decide to separate? What do we do?

Separating While in a Domestic Partnership 

What many people don't understand is that a breakup of cohabitating sexual partners can be just as intricate as a legal divorce. A breakup of a legal domestic partnership can be just as intense even though the separation may follow a slightly altered, and constantly evolving, set of rules.   

Since the establishment of the relationship is a legal matter, then you must go through legal means to dissolve it. The dissolution of the partnership is a legal matter and you should acquire the help of an attorney who stays up-to-date on the ever-changing rules of the process.  

Conclusion

Our team at Jamra & Jamra, LLP, understand the domestic partnership laws behind the division of properties and businesses, child custody, and even issues surrounding domestic violence and other forms of abuse. We have direct experience with both homosexual and heterosexual dissolutions and we prefer a mediated process over a contentious fight.

No matter what, we will support you and protect your rights, even if that means going to court.

Contact us anytime and we can help you understand your position, your rights, and your responsibilities towards your former partner. We can outline what your next steps should be and work with you for a diplomatic end to your relationship.