Family Law Blog

Can You Increase Spousal Support?

Tuesday, September 17, 2019

alimony payment

If there is one thing that is certain in life, it is that circumstances can and will change. This is why spousal support can be so fickle. The circumstances that were your life at divorce can often change over time, but the question is, will they affect spousal support. In truth, you can increase and decrease the amount you get from spousal support payments depending on what is going on in your life. These circumstances include:

Both Parties Agree

The most rare reason is both parties can agree to lower or raise an alimony payment. Even in the most amicable divorces, this is not likely to happen, but a signed document by both parties taken to the court is good enough reason for them.

Cost of Living Adjustment

If there was a clause in your divorce that states alimony will be adjusted for the cost of living, this can cause alimony to go up in order to adjust to the annual cost of living. This often solves any future need to modify spousal support, but it can be a difficult clause for both parties to agree on.

Escalator Clauses

Similar to a cost of living clause in a divorce decree, there can also be an escalator clause. This means that when the spouse paying makes more money, they have to pay more in spousal support. However, this clause can be a gamble as it can work the opposite way as well.

Temporary Loss

If you have become unemployed temporarily, your spousal support can be modified temporarily. The courts could rule that payments stop for a short while or that they just decrease until whatever is affecting the spouse's life changes.

While divorce shouldn't be about who gets the most, you always want your fair share. If you are going through a divorce, contact us today to see how the Law Office of Jamra & Jamra can help.

A Beverly Hills Divorce Lawyer Discusses Games Divorced Couples Play

Saturday, September 07, 2019

man and woman sitting on couch

After a couple is divorced, each person begins to settle into their new life, single and unattached. Some couples have difficulty with this new way of living, and even though they are legally free and unencumbered, they continue to banter back and forth for a period of time. This is out of fear of that long forgotten way of life of living single again. 

Without a doubt, this change is not comfortable at first, and sometimes it is easier to try and hold onto that more familiar life, of having someone else around. Before your new life can get a firm foundation and, fully begin, divorced couples will play games with each other for a while until each finally accepts the break-up and moves forward. That is when the game playing usually ends.

Here are three games to look out for and to avoid if possible. 

Look at Me Now

 This game is usually played when one becomes thinner, healthier, dresses better, and in general is paying more attention to their physical appearance. That improved image is flaunted as a way of saying "Look at how much better my life is without you! Divorcing you is good for me".

The Better Parent

 Competing for being the better parent or the most liked parent by showering the kids with extravagant presents, or allowing them to break the rules the other parent sets.

Still Want Me? 

 The ex-husband becomes flirtatious with the ex-wife to see if she still wants him and will feign interest in her to see if he is still able to attract other women.

Divorce is filled with so much emotion, and even after the divorce is finalized, emotions can still run high and create problems for both involved. To learn more about divorce, please contact us.