Family Law Blog

Prenuptial Agreements Can Be Hard To Talk About, But Necessary

Friday, June 28, 2019

In today's day and age, most people have heard of a prenuptial agreement. Essentially it's a contract that two people enter into before they get married that outlines how their financial assets will be divided in the event of a divorce (or in the event of a death, since some agreements cover this as well according to How Stuff Works).

Talking about these things is not exactly the height of romance. But couples who make responsible decisions now, are the ones who reap the benefits of those decisions later.

If You Don't Decide, Then Someone Else Will

Facing adversity together, and seeing each other through tough decisions, can make you stronger as a couple. More importantly, though, if you don't make decisions about these matters then someone else is going to. In this way, it's a lot like what happens if you or your spouse end up on life support... you hope it doesn't happen, but that doesn't mean you don't want all the paperwork signed and dated beforehand in case it does come to that.

Because if things go well, you'll never have to worry about getting divorced. But if it turns out to be necessary, and you don't have a prenuptial agreement, now it falls onto the decision makers in your local jurisdictions. This can drag the process out much longer, and it often means that you now have to do things in ways that neither of you agrees with. You may not even have the ability to make certain decisions, depending on where you were married.

Prenuptial agreements solve so many issues, and take the stress out of already stressful situations. Not only that, but if you're not secure enough as a couple to go through that process, then you probably need it the most.

For more information on prenuptial agreements, and what they can do for your relationship, simply contact us today!


When Co-Parenting Is Not An Option

Thursday, June 13, 2019

mother and son

When co-parenting is not an option for whatever reason, whether it is because of domestic violence, child abuse, or maybe addiction, you are on your own. One word can kill your chances at happiness and having peace of mind. It is called guilt, and it will make your life miserable. It will also have an affect on your parenting abilities.

Most divorced parents feel like they have failed as a parent to some degree. That guilt will surface time and time again in ways you would never suspect, but if you are aware of it, you can eliminate it from your new life as a single parent. 

Here are three ways you can eliminate guilt and make your new beginning a positive experience for both you and your children. 

1. Depriving yourself so your children will have more is a big mistake. You have as much right to happiness as your children. Don't give up your bedroom because it is bigger. Don't be a chauffeur if it makes your life harder, and don't spend your last money to give your children things they don't need. You need to give to yourself and do more for yourself because you are just as deserving. 

2. Don't try to be both a mom and a dad. You can't be both. Your kids will need a positive male role model, so look to your brother, uncle, cousin, father, and even a teacher for that positive male influence. You will be surprised at how well received and appreciated this will be. There are other people in your children's lives that can offer emotional support besides you. 

3. Pull together and work as a team. Everyone should pitch in to take care of the home front. Teaching your children how to be self-sufficient will help them greatly when they transition into adulthood. They might not like it now, but your children will be grateful for these lessons when they become adults.

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Are At-Home DNA Test Admissible in Court?

Saturday, June 08, 2019

dna test

Whether you want to determine paternity or use your own DNA to prove something else, you may think to turn to a number of DNA testing kits that are sold to use as evidence in your family law case. These kits allow you to test DNA in the comfort of your own home, but unfortunately, the results of these kits won't hold up in court.

Even in family law court, which is not considered as serious as criminal court, a test needs to be legally admissible. Home DNA tests are not considered admissible in court. The primary concern is the test itself could have been tainted. Outside factors could have affected the test results because they were not handled in the correct manner.

Of course, the court may also suspect that you tampered with the test results. What it to stop you from using another's DNA and claiming it for your own? In official DNA tests, the chain of custody must remain unbroken to ensure the validity and authenticity of the test. With at-home DNA kits, there is no chain of custody, so literally anything could have happened.

If your family law case does hinge on DNA test results, you can take the at home tests to confirm the DNA. However, you cannot use those tests in court. Instead, you will need to recommend a DNA test to the court to confirm the results in an official capacity. So this doesn't mean your DNA results are a bust, you just need to go through the correct channels to make those results official.

If you are considering any family law case, be it custody, divorce, or child support, we can help you. Contact us today to see what Jamra & Jamra can offer in order to get the best results from your case.