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3 Signs That It May Be Time to Consider a Divorce

Thursday, December 10, 2020

Deciding that it is time to end your marriage is one of the most difficult things that a person, or a couple, can go through. However, if lies, betrayal, or years of resentment have left you feeling detached from your marriage, you may find yourself wondering if it is time for a divorce. Yet, how can you know for sure if things are really over? If you are unsure about the state of your marriage, here is a look at a few common signs that a divorce may be in the best interest of you and your spouse. 

You Constantly Feel Criticized or Put Down By Your Spouse

A clear red flag that all is not well in your marriage is if you are constantly put down and made to feel not good enough by your spouse. Constant criticism and emotional abuse from your partner can leave you feeling worn out and even depressed. If you feel as though you are constantly criticized or made to feel inferior, it may be time to consider a divorce. This abuse is not good for your mental health, and you should consider taking care of yourself by moving on. 

You Often Feel Lonely Even When You're With Your Partner

Over time, you may have noticed that you and your spouse have drifted apart. Through no one's fault, you may find that you no longer have anything in common, and you may not even have anything to talk about. This can leave you feeling lonely even when you are with your partner due to a lack of affection, closeness, and intimacy. If this is the case, it may be in both of your best interests to have a frank conversation about the condition of your marriage and whether a divorce may be the best option. 

Communication Has Fallen Apart

Towards the end of a marriage, it is not uncommon for communication to completely fall apart. You may even find that you are unable to have a simple conversation without things dissolving into arguments. Furthermore, these arguments likely don't get resolved, and you may find yourself arguing about the same things over and over again without finding a solution or common ground. This is often a clear sign of a relationship that has been damaged beyond repair. 

Conclusion

While it can be difficult to admit when it is time for a divorce, doing so can help you and your spouse to move on and heal from a broken relationship. However, if you plan on seeking a divorce, it is critical that you consult an attorney so that you have someone to walk you through this complicated process. Feel free to contact us to learn about how we can help you through this difficult time.